In our modern culture, it is harder than ever to be patient. We want everything, and that includes sexual stuff, instantly. We struggle to deal with the pain, discomfort, and uncertainty of waiting for the release we’re seeking.
Fortunately, there are a few things we can do to improve the time we spend waiting for our sexual stuff.
Anal sex
Anal sex can be both painful and pleasurable. In fact, a study by Kinsey found that up to 35 percent of women find anal sex pleasurable. However, this number may vary depending on a variety of factors. Here are some tips to enjoy anal sex. First, don’t be rushed. Make sure to take it slow and make it personal. Second, use lubricant. This will help to smoothen the penetration.
Anal sex is risky if you don’t prepare properly. You should always relax, use proper lubricant, and wear a condom that won’t be removed during the process. Remember that the anus is not self-lubricating, so use plenty of lube. Lastly, use barrier protection and make sure to use a latex condom.
Swallowing semen
Swallowing sexual stuff may be a difficult thing for you or your partner to do. It can make you feel anxious or uncomfortable. It is best to discuss your feelings with your partner beforehand. Try to set boundaries and discuss why you are afraid of trying something new. This way, you can feel empowered to take it off the menu if necessary.
It is not recommended to swallow semen because it can cause allergic reactions. Semen contains the protein human seminal plasma, which can cause an allergic reaction in some people. It is officialy known as human seminal plasma hypersensitivity and can cause symptoms of itching, swelling, and difficulty breathing. These symptoms usually occur between 20 and 39 minutes after contact. It is also important to note that certain foods can affect the consistency and taste of semen.
Swallowing ice cubes
Swallowing ice cubes for sexual purposes is a great way to heighten the sensation of oral sex. You can even take sips of ice water during oral sex to ease the sensation. Of course, not every partner is a fan of this method, so it is important to communicate with your partner beforehand.
Ice cubes as a sex toy
An ice cube can be an effective sex toy to turn up the heat and surprise your partner. You can use the cube to slide up and down her torso and tease her with the cold sensation. This sensation play can be used within BDSM.
Ice cubes are often cloudy due to dissolved air in the water. When water freezes, it forms thousands of tiny bubbles. Once the water is boiled, this air is driven out and the ice is transparent. The ice cube can be used on its own, or you can use a condom or a cardboard tube.
Although ice can be a sensual toy, some people are not comfortable with it. It is best to use caution and experiment before using ice on your lover.