As a submissive with a Dom that works out of state sometimes, I don’t always get the maintenance I want or need. If you do not know what maintenance is or have never had maintenance, it is sometimes used as a part of 24/7 BDSM.
There is not always a reason to take a regular punishment because it’s just small digressions that don’t need it. But at the end of the week, I should still take be reminded why I should not have done those things in the first place like I need to. That’s maintenance. Maintaining the rules that a dominant has set out for you no matter what. It feeds my need to be dominated and I love it.
My Dom has started a new rule that if he is not home at the end of the week for maintenance we are supposed to call the 18+ chat lines and get three people off, sometimes the number changes but right now it’s three. It’s not something we normally practice but it’s so much fun! He is usually also on the phone calls with me just listening, making sure I do what he says. Knowing he is listening makes it even more exciting because I know that if I don’t do a good job I’ll have to do more but, if I do exactly what he says on the chat lines he’s going to like it.
This is one of the most fun and interesting ways that my Dom has done maintenance. With the chat lines, he can explain what is happening to other like-minded people before we ever start, everyone is understanding and okay to play which is the best part. We even sometimes call when he’s in town just for fun. Signing up was easy and with so many people on I think everyone should try it.
